what are the best ways to express love - how to find the right girl

Finding the right partner who will stay with you throughout your life and beyond is indeed a difficult if not impossible task! Individually both of you may be ideal human beings but what is most important is that are you two compatible? This depends on how well you are willing to accommodate each other. Let's face it, if you want to share your life with an individual, there are bound to be some compromises.. on both sides.

Things You'll Need

An open mind, understanding, love and respect for each other.

 

Steps

Don't be overbearing. Expressing love is more a subtle gesture rather than overt display. A woman is more sensitive and therefore receptive to words and thoughts than money. What I mean is if you are the types who just spends lavishly without spending quality time with your potential partner, chances are that the relationship might not last long. Yes women love gifts but thoguhtful gifts not necessarily expensive that are an extension of your tender feelings for her.

Don't be possessive. I know it is hard for men but the fact is the less possessive you are, the more likely it is for the lady to remain attached to you. This is one of the best ways to profess your love and trust for her. It is an inverse proportion. The more possessive you become the further you drive her away from you.

Don't keep tabs on her. Do not check up on her activities hour on hour. Let her be the one to call you and keep you informed. In fact, you see, this keeps the lady more in love with you. It is negative psychology at work. It makes her a bit insecure that you do not call her often. It is better this way than her lying to you if you start harrassing her.

Bring random gifts to surprise her. Like I said women love gifts not necessarily expensive ones. Offer her a lovely pendant on a special date, bring her some beautiful blossoms on a romantic evening, offer to do her work once in a while that you can manage, give her a great massage when she appears tired. Do this and she is yours for life. Guaranteed!

Praise her. This is one thing that men often overlook. Just positive words. That does not mean that you go overboard. Just a thank you, a kind word, a loving gesture goes a long way in keeping the fires alive. Also keep in mind, never to criticise her in front of others.

 

Tips

There are times when you are not in the mood to do any of the above.. in short, in a mood to fight. So fight it out. But make it a rule of your relationship, never ever to remind her zhat all you have done for her if you want her to continue staying in your life with as much love as before. Doing so will not only destroy what you have so painstakingly built but create a rift.. a doubt in the mind of your partner that what all you do is only for show and you don't mean it.

 

Caution

Do all the things without expectations and then see the fruit of your actions!